I’m going shopping this afternoon – for fun stuff! It’s funny isn’t it. There is a small part of me that feels guilty because it’s seen as really bad to be materialistic but you need to inject some balance into your life. An excess of anything can lead to destructive outcomes but always remember to …
Well, okay, it was in my dream but still, rather cool! And he was a naked giant, yep, feel free to be shocked. The dream took place on my childhood street, there was a group of us looking at the giant who was, initially, 8 foot 7 inches. Very, very tall. As happens in dreams, …
So few really go deep. Why? It’s scary in the bowels of your mind. You might rake up heartaches, regrets, fears, injuries. Mothers tell their children there are no monsters under the bed when you go to sleep. Yeah, that’s right! They also tell you not to go over and talk to strangers because they …
I’ve talked a lot about saying “Yes!” and “NO!” recently. What I haven’t talked about is ‘Right’ and ‘Wrong’. In order to be your own person, or to use the technical term to ‘individuate’, you must establish your morals. What behaviour is ethical, what is devious? And! What will you do about it. In War, …
It’s funny isn’t it, we think that self-improvement has to be really complicated. It really isn’t. The simple step is to be honest. Don’t hide. Deny deny. Don’t try to be brave. Your feelings are your feelings and you need to express them healthily, in your own time and please understand they are not going …
Do you overload yourself? When you want to make a lifestyle change do you try to do ten (million!) things at once? Are you hard on yourself? Do you find it difficult to treat yourself kindly? I am asking a lot of questions of you in my recent posts. Why? It’s all the stuff that …
Do you need people to like you? Do you always run to make people happy? What would you be if you were more adult and mature? Serious questions, huh? Who are you trying to please? It’s actually a question riddled with superstition. You can see it in most people. Do you think the government is …
Where are you going in life? Are you drifting? Are you disrupting your negative patterns? Here’s a tip. Whatever you can have ready for the next day, do it the night before. If you have morning tea, like me, get the tea, mug and water ready so you don’t have to waste thought process in …
We’re so fucking serious nowadays. Even when you listen to Jordan Peterson, you get the impression he’s always had a really brutal life…… “Life is hard!” “You have to bear your cross.” “Life is tainted with misery and suffering.” Jesus Sodding Christ, lighten the Hell Up! Improving yourself, having an improved perception of yourself, being …
Why did he leave? What’s she thinking? How can I help them? Why on earth did he do that? Sound familiar? So many waste so much time on unanswerable questions. You’re never going to know what others are thinking. You’re not going to be able to control them. You’re wasting your time. What better questions …