People are so terribly inconvenient, aren’t they! All those preferences and different ways of doing things. Terribly annoying.
Here’s the thing though, why does it matter? Why do you care?
Are you hiding from something? Are you being a perfectionist – unable to admit you dislike the inevitable mess of getting yourself sorted mentally and emotionally?
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference.”
This is when we get down to the greatest piece of wisdom the Western World has ever discovered – it’s down to you, the individual, to get yourself sorted. People in glass houses and all that!
Things are messy, I’ve struggled enormously with this and it’s stunted by progress, it will yours too if you let it.
Control yourself. That’s all.