Question what YOU really want?
Question why you do what you do?
Are you trying to please people? Are your desires your own or are you trying to get people approval from others?
Boundaries are good but scary because they mean saying no and not getting that false sense of approval from other people.
Start questioning and defining what you want to do with your life. Be prepared, some won’t like it and they will probably let you know in no uncertain terms.
This is what it means to grow up.